In an era of technology, the search for love may seem as simple as signing yourself up to a dating app. However, you may find yourself asking, “what are the odds?” or, “is the one really there, or are signing up to swim endlessly in a sea of unavailable women?”
Though doubt and intimidation of online dating are valid, rest assured knowing there are ways to weed out those with different intentions! Below are some helpful tips to save you much of the well-known stresses of finding a real relationship – online.
THE GOLDEN RULES FOR SUCCESS IN ONLINE DATING
(Note: some rules may seem redundant, there is method to the madness)
1. Be comfortable alone with yourself first.
Women can sense whether or not a man is desperate, much like men can sense when a woman is overly-dependent or eager to settle. Unless you are looking to turn away women, the best way for a man exhibit his ability to protect his woman, is for her to know that he does not need her – he just wants her to be a part of his story.
Ask yourself, would you want to be with someone who does not feel good about themselve?
Before you are able to take care of your partner, make sure you are treating yourself the same way. Spoil yourself, dress well, be well-groomed, whatever makes you feel good. Note that your sexuality will shine when you feel most confident.
2. Do not settle with your first match.
Chances are, your first, second, or even third match will not be “The One.” Though it is possible, online dating gives you the advantage to fail – without the endless misery of losing the only best thing you have ever met. In fact, the more experience you have communicating with women, the better your understanding will be of what you are looking for.
Do not be afraid of failures.
It would seem that in our time, finding a loved one for a relationship is an easy task. Enough for you to be registered on one of the dating websites or downloading a dating app.
But how long will such communication continue for? How to find a woman for a serious relationship?
3. Avoid excuses.
External beauty should never be a reason not to take a chance. If given the opportunity to shoot a three-pointer to make a million dollars, would you take it? You’d have nothing to lose that you do not already have. Similarly, when looking for excuses not to talk to the woman you desire, there is no reason to assume that you can not take a chance. The best things in life are earned. Like the old saying goes, “If you don’t succeed, try, and try again.” and “The more you try, the easier things will get”.
4. Enjoy the moment!
This is one of the most important things in online dating. You have the advantage of experience! One moment you are nervous, the next you are in deep conversation with someone with new information to offer. You do not need to set your mind to finding a partner; instead, when you choose to make the best of the moment, you can never see an opportunity as time wasted. Always remember, the slightest feeling can set off an entire moment. When you minimize expectation, when you lose fear and worry – you allow what life is throwing your way; and one day, that will be “The One.”
5. Be yourself.
If you are truly in search
6. Do not be afraid to make connections.
Not every date will end up the way you envision. However, the person you meet may one day be the reason you meet your partner, your future business partner, or simply be an incredible friend. It is absolutely okay to walk away from a date without disappointment. It is okay just to add one more person to your incredible life. Additionally, appreciate human differences. Being picky will only result in women being picky about you.1 reader likes this post